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Ask EelKat: Returned Gift


My boyfriend is mad because I returned the gifts he got me for $100 store credit. Then I sold the gift card they gave me for $60 so I could get cash.

I didn’t like anything in the store at all. I didn’t like the gift and I wouldn’t ever wear it. He’s mad cos he says I pissed away $40 of his money. I think I did the right thing because not wearing his gift would have cost him the whole $100.

He doesn’t see it that way.

Hell yes that’s a waste of MY money. A gift is sentimental! It’s not like it was meant to be worn everyday. She’s more of a straightedge girl and the gift I got was a little slutty (which I like). would have been happy if she just wore it for me. She’s always got suggestions on what I wear and if I would do the same thing to her she’d flip a lid.

Losing $40 for nothing sucks. Because she may spend the $60 on herself which is fine but if I knew this in the first place, I would have just given her $60 cash. And this is why I hate buying gifts. She will get cash next year but as for this I think she owes me $40 – I am willing to also negotiate sexual favors also (don’t not vote for me because of this – I am a guy for God’s sake).

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Here is my answer:

EelKat said…
I can’t take sides with either of you.

To the girl: First off exchanging a gift for anything is stupid. It makes you look like a greedy, selfish, spoiled brat gold digger who’s only after this guy for his money. If it was the wrong size, exchange for another size. If you don’t like what he gave you, tell him! Tell him it’s not something you’d wear/use and ask if you can go with him to pick something else out that you really wanted. He’ll do the exchange and get his money back, than use it to buy a gift you can use.

As for the guy: You are acting more childish than she is. Yes I agree that she was stupid for losing the $40. Whoever bought the card from her took advantage of her. They should have paid her the whole $100 for the card. But guess what: YOU GAVE IT TO HER! She’s the one who’s out $40, not you. Once you give a person something it’s theirs to do what they want, and you have no say it what they do with it.

And as for the whole sexual favors thing…what are you her pimp? You make her sound like she means nothing to you but free sex. If she gets in a car wreck tomorrow and is paralyzed for life, your sex life with her is out the door. Are you going to stay by her sexless bed side for the next 70 years or are you going to be out the door looking for the next girl you can use and lose? I’m sorry, but you come off sounding like a rapist who’s only off the streets because you found a girl you don’t have to rape. I hope she breaks up with you before you do what every other man who talks like you does: becomes a violent wife beating abuser.

To both of you: Grow up! You both come off sounding like petty self-centered brats in need of a diaper change. You each need to get a life.