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Ask EelKat: Returned Gift


My boyfriend is mad because I returned the gifts he got me for $100 store credit. Then I sold the gift card they gave me for $60 so I could get cash.

I didn’t like anything in the store at all. I didn’t like the gift and I wouldn’t ever wear it. He’s mad cos he says I pissed away $40 of his money. I think I did the right thing because not wearing his gift would have cost him the whole $100.

He doesn’t see it that way.

Hell yes that’s a waste of MY money. A gift is sentimental! It’s not like it was meant to be worn everyday. She’s more of a straightedge girl and the gift I got was a little slutty (which I like). would have been happy if she just wore it for me. She’s always got suggestions on what I wear and if I would do the same thing to her she’d flip a lid.

Losing $40 for nothing sucks. Because she may spend the $60 on herself which is fine but if I knew this in the first place, I would have just given her $60 cash. And this is why I hate buying gifts. She will get cash next year but as for this I think she owes me $40 – I am willing to also negotiate sexual favors also (don’t not vote for me because of this – I am a guy for God’s sake).

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Here is my answer:

EelKat said…
I can’t take sides with either of you.

To the girl: First off exchanging a gift for anything is stupid. It makes you look like a greedy, selfish, spoiled brat gold digger who’s only after this guy for his money. If it was the wrong size, exchange for another size. If you don’t like what he gave you, tell him! Tell him it’s not something you’d wear/use and ask if you can go with him to pick something else out that you really wanted. He’ll do the exchange and get his money back, than use it to buy a gift you can use.

As for the guy: You are acting more childish than she is. Yes I agree that she was stupid for losing the $40. Whoever bought the card from her took advantage of her. They should have paid her the whole $100 for the card. But guess what: YOU GAVE IT TO HER! She’s the one who’s out $40, not you. Once you give a person something it’s theirs to do what they want, and you have no say it what they do with it.

And as for the whole sexual favors thing…what are you her pimp? You make her sound like she means nothing to you but free sex. If she gets in a car wreck tomorrow and is paralyzed for life, your sex life with her is out the door. Are you going to stay by her sexless bed side for the next 70 years or are you going to be out the door looking for the next girl you can use and lose? I’m sorry, but you come off sounding like a rapist who’s only off the streets because you found a girl you don’t have to rape. I hope she breaks up with you before you do what every other man who talks like you does: becomes a violent wife beating abuser.

To both of you: Grow up! You both come off sounding like petty self-centered brats in need of a diaper change. You each need to get a life.

I think I have found the answer to why local church members and leaders call me a witch and set fire to my home.

I think I have found an answer to the vandalism, arsine, drive by shootings, witchcraft accusations, and other lesser forms of harassment that have happened at the hands of local church members these past 9 years: ***People often grudge others what they cannot enjoy themselves. -Aesop ***

In other words, my lifestyle is something they want and can not have, thus in their frustration they try to take it from me, and yet, in everything they have done, they have not, nor can not succeed. Why?

Because I unlike them live my life. I do the things I want to do, when I want to do them, how I want to do them. I am not controlled by a job or a church.

I think they feel trapped by their jobs, and trapped by their church. If they want to drop every thing and spend 10 hours on the beach, they do not have the freedom to do so, like I do.

If they want to wear 15th century ball gowns or fairy princess costumes to run to the grocery store, they can not do so, because they fear ridicule by their peers.

They have huge debts: house, cars, credit cards, bills for frivolous things. I own no man any thing.

When they burned down my house, the last thing they expected was for me to take to living under a tarp and continue on doing things no different than before. The lost of a house would have destified them, thus they thought it would me. But their fault was thinking that I care about material possessions – like they do.

I live what one woman once called: “the life of a wild and free feral child”, which she than added: “I wish I had your freedom”.

And that is what is boils down to: I have the freedom to do absolutely anything that pops into my head, something they do not have, something they want, but fear to pursue, because they are too blinded by the risks of my lifestyle to see the benefits of it. Because they can not have the freedom I have, they made (and continue to make) many attempts to take that from me. And yet they continue to fail. Why?

I will tell you why. I live my life to the letter, by Jesus’ words: To be the lily of the field. Not familiar with it? Look it up. Want to see a modern day translation of that? Watch the movie: You Can’t Take It With You.

If you have ever read Jesus’ words or watched the movie: “You Can’t Take It With You”, than you will know what I mean when I say this:

I am a lily.

Waiting for Emmett to come.

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Last night’s fire = Human Stupidity

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Yep – tweets again, so you got to read from bottom to top.

  1. EelKatEelKat 

    So last’s night’s fire has been chalked down to human stupidity. Why am I not surprised?

  2. EelKatEelKat 

    I can’t believe there are people so stupid that they would consider drinking or smoking – no one their brain cells are dead

  3. EelKatEelKat 

    Do you realize how much of an idiot some one has to be to drink or smoke let alone do both? I am surrounded by freaking imbeciles.

  4. EelKatEelKat 

    I use parts of my brain that less than .0025% of the rest of the world use, and people wonder why I can not have a conversation with them

  5. EelKatEelKat 

    Do you have any idea how hard it is to find someone I can talk to on my level when my IQ is shared by only .003% of the population?

  6. EelKatEelKat 

    show me someone I can actually have a stimulating conversation with and I’ll have contact with them

  7. EelKatEelKat 

    and people wonder why I avoid contact with people – yeah – I’ve got Einstein’s IQ and you want me to hob knob with idiots?

  8. EelKatEelKat 

    I wonder if it was the same drunk woman who was trying to rush into the burning building screaming that she had left her cigarettes inside?

  9. EelKatEelKat 

    Well, update on the fire – it was a burning couch upstairs – some drunk woman fell asleep with a cigarette

  10. EelKatEelKat 

    They now say that the storm “SHOULD” arrive before midnight – *should*? They don’t know?

  11. EelKatEelKat 

    the weatherman is now saying the storm is late and has not hit us yet – Well duh! Anyone looking outside can see that much!

Waiting for Emmett to come.

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Vanished Vet Account???? WTH?

I am so pissed off right now. All of my medical records have some how vanished off the doctors computer system and they are telling me that because I’m not on the computer, I was never a patient! For the past 20 odd years I (my pets) have gone to the Mann Memorial Clinic for Animals Route 1 at Arundel Kennebunk, ME. OVER TWENTY YEARS! Get that… 20 years, that is important to remember. This vet, however is more than an hours drive from my house. Last year a new vet opened up just a 15 min drive from our house, so I figure, I’ll switch my vet. In a medical emergancy 1 hour and 20 mins, verses 15 mins, can make a big differance. It’s to our advantage to go to a local vet.

Okay, here’s the thing. You guys know how many animals I have right? In the past 30 years I have had over 500 pets. FIVE HUNDRED PETS. That’s a lot of vet visits each year. I currently have just under 100 pets, including 9 cats and 1 dog. That dog, Buddy, has gone to the Mann vet twice a year every year for the past 10 years… that’s 20 visits to the vet, for just that one dog… and my other pets have been going to Mann regular as well.

Here’s the thing:

Today, I called the new vet to make Buddy an apointmet, the new vet asked me to have Mann fax them Buddy’s records. Okay. So I call Mann and ask them to send Buddy’s records, and get this: They tell me that they have no record of a Wendy Allen or a Buddy Allen ever being a patient there!!!! I was on the phone with the bitchiest desk girl I’ve ever talked to, for more than 2 hours, while she yelled at me, and accused me of lieing and said that I had never been to that vet before in my life!!!

She told me that they never delete their records, so she KNEW FOR A FACT that I had never been to their office! How the hell do you lose a 20 year old medical file… can you imagine how huge a file we must have… me going there for 20 odd years with so many pets? How can they lose something like that and not notice it?

OMG… me and my 500 pets, not going to their office anymore is going to take one hell of a bite out of their yearly income, that’s for sure…. mabey they can’t find me on their records, but they sure are going to notice a huge drop in the patients they have coming in now.

I couldn’t believe it! I was going to them for more than 20 years! She tells me, that the computer system doesn’t lie, that I’m not in it. I was in their system, a good 5 years before they even had computers in their office!

Has anyone else ever had anything like this happen to them?

What’s your take on this? I’d love to hear what you have to say about this post. Leave a comment and share your views!

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Vanished Vet Account???? WTH?

I am so pissed off right now. All of my medical records have some how vanished off the doctors computer system and they are telling me that because I’m not on the computer, I was never a patient! For the past 20 odd years I (my pets) have gone to the Mann Memorial Clinic for Animals Route 1 at Arundel Kennebunk, ME. OVER TWENTY YEARS! Get that… 20 years, that is important to remember. This vet, however is more than an hours drive from my house. Last year a new vet opened up just a 15 min drive from our house, so I figure, I’ll switch my vet. In a medical emergancy 1 hour and 20 mins, verses 15 mins, can make a big differance. It’s to our advantage to go to a local vet.

Okay, here’s the thing. You guys know how many animals I have right? In the past 30 years I have had over 500 pets. FIVE HUNDRED PETS. That’s a lot of vet visits each year. I currently have just under 100 pets, including 9 cats and 1 dog. That dog, Buddy, has gone to the Mann vet twice a year every year for the past 10 years… that’s 20 visits to the vet, for just that one dog… and my other pets have been going to Mann regular as well.

Here’s the thing:

Today, I called the new vet to make Buddy an apointmet, the new vet asked me to have Mann fax them Buddy’s records. Okay. So I call Mann and ask them to send Buddy’s records, and get this: They tell me that they have no record of a Wendy Allen or a Buddy Allen ever being a patient there!!!! I was on the phone with the bitchiest desk girl I’ve ever talked to, for more than 2 hours, while she yelled at me, and accused me of lieing and said that I had never been to that vet before in my life!!!

She told me that they never delete their records, so she KNEW FOR A FACT that I had never been to their office! How the hell do you lose a 20 year old medical file… can you imagine how huge a file we must have… me going there for 20 odd years with so many pets? How can they lose something like that and not notice it?

OMG… me and my 500 pets, not going to their office anymore is going to take one hell of a bite out of their yearly income, that’s for sure…. mabey they can’t find me on their records, but they sure are going to notice a huge drop in the patients they have coming in now.

I couldn’t believe it! I was going to them for more than 20 years! She tells me, that the computer system doesn’t lie, that I’m not in it. I was in their system, a good 5 years before they even had computers in their office!

Has anyone else ever had anything like this happen to them?

What’s your take on this? I’d love to hear what you have to say about this post. Leave a comment and share your views!

————-
Copper Cockeral
Publishing Your NaNo Novel?
Do You and I Read the Same Books?
Want to Give Me a Reward for Reaching 50k?
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Vanished Vet Account???? WTH?

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I am so pissed off right now. All of my medical records have some how vanished off the doctors computer system and they are telling me that because I’m not on the computer, I was never a patient! For the past 20 odd years I (my pets) have gone to the Mann Memorial Clinic for Animals Route 1 at Arundel Kennebunk, ME. OVER TWENTY YEARS! Get that… 20 years, that is important to remember. This vet, however is more than an hours drive from my house. Last year a new vet opened up just a 15 min drive from our house, so I figure, I’ll switch my vet. In a medical emergancy 1 hour and 20 mins, verses 15 mins, can make a big differance. It’s to our advantage to go to a local vet.

Okay, here’s the thing. You guys know how many animals I have right? In the past 30 years I have had over 500 pets. FIVE HUNDRED PETS. That’s a lot of vet visits each year. I currently have just under 100 pets, including 9 cats and 1 dog. That dog, Buddy, has gone to the Mann vet twice a year every year for the past 10 years… that’s 20 visits to the vet, for just that one dog… and my other pets have been going to Mann regular as well.

Here’s the thing:

Today, I called the new vet to make Buddy an apointmet, the new vet asked me to have Mann fax them Buddy’s records. Okay. So I call Mann and ask them to send Buddy’s records, and get this: They tell me that they have no record of a Wendy Allen or a Buddy Allen ever being a patient there!!!! I was on the phone with the bitchiest desk girl I’ve ever talked to, for more than 2 hours, while she yelled at me, and accused me of lieing and said that I had never been to that vet before in my life!!!

She told me that they never delete their records, so she KNEW FOR A FACT that I had never been to their office! How the hell do you lose a 20 year old medical file… can you imagine how huge a file we must have… me going there for 20 odd years with so many pets? How can they lose something like that and not notice it?

OMG… me and my 500 pets, not going to their office anymore is going to take one hell of a bite out of their yearly income, that’s for sure…. mabey they can’t find me on their records, but they sure are going to notice a huge drop in the patients they have coming in now.

I couldn’t believe it! I was going to them for more than 20 years! She tells me, that the computer system doesn’t lie, that I’m not in it. I was in their system, a good 5 years before they even had computers in their office!

Has anyone else ever had anything like this happen to them?

What’s your take on this? I’d love to hear what you have to say about this post. Leave a comment and share your views!

————-
Copper Cockeral
Publishing Your NaNo Novel?
Do You and I Read the Same Books?
Want to Give Me a Reward for Reaching 50k?
*I Love Phookas!*

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>Vanished Vet Account???? WTH?

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black birdfall leaves centerblack bird

I am so pissed off right now. All of my medical records have some how vanished off the doctors computer system and they are telling me that because I’m not on the computer, I was never a patient! For the past 20 odd years I (my pets) have gone to the Mann Memorial Clinic for Animals Route 1 at Arundel Kennebunk, ME. OVER TWENTY YEARS! Get that… 20 years, that is important to remember. This vet, however is more than an hours drive from my house. Last year a new vet opened up just a 15 min drive from our house, so I figure, I’ll switch my vet. In a medical emergancy 1 hour and 20 mins, verses 15 mins, can make a big differance. It’s to our advantage to go to a local vet.

Okay, here’s the thing. You guys know how many animals I have right? In the past 30 years I have had over 500 pets. FIVE HUNDRED PETS. That’s a lot of vet visits each year. I currently have just under 100 pets, including 9 cats and 1 dog. That dog, Buddy, has gone to the Mann vet twice a year every year for the past 10 years… that’s 20 visits to the vet, for just that one dog… and my other pets have been going to Mann regular as well.

Here’s the thing:

Today, I called the new vet to make Buddy an apointmet, the new vet asked me to have Mann fax them Buddy’s records. Okay. So I call Mann and ask them to send Buddy’s records, and get this: They tell me that they have no record of a Wendy Allen or a Buddy Allen ever being a patient there!!!! I was on the phone with the bitchiest desk girl I’ve ever talked to, for more than 2 hours, while she yelled at me, and accused me of lieing and said that I had never been to that vet before in my life!!!

She told me that they never delete their records, so she KNEW FOR A FACT that I had never been to their office! How the hell do you lose a 20 year old medical file… can you imagine how huge a file we must have… me going there for 20 odd years with so many pets? How can they lose something like that and not notice it?

OMG… me and my 500 pets, not going to their office anymore is going to take one hell of a bite out of their yearly income, that’s for sure…. mabey they can’t find me on their records, but they sure are going to notice a huge drop in the patients they have coming in now.

I couldn’t believe it! I was going to them for more than 20 years! She tells me, that the computer system doesn’t lie, that I’m not in it. I was in their system, a good 5 years before they even had computers in their office!

Has anyone else ever had anything like this happen to them?

What’s your take on this? I’d love to hear what you have to say about this post. Leave a comment and share your views!

————-
Copper Cockeral
Publishing Your NaNo Novel?
Do You and I Read the Same Books?
Want to Give Me a Reward for Reaching 50k?
*I Love Phookas!*

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